What to do when the chips are gone...

A certain problem has arisen over the last several weeks. An earlier post regarding my wife leaving explains, but I find myself having issues socializing with anyone due to fears I didn't have before.

The problem arises that now that half of my circle of friends has evaporated, and the other half are really only work friends, I find it incredibly difficult to find others to talk to.

Dating sites are obviously out, not for the reasons that you might think though. Why in the world would I even think about dating someone now? I mean, if a 13 year relationship evaporated so quickly, why in the world would I risk putting myself back out there for even further disappointment?

Going out to bars isn't my bag. Got out of that a long time ago. But it is still a fact that humans are social creatures, and thus I need to find that outlet so that I might be able to mingle with others socially to keep a normal happy lifestyle.

It is a difficult thing, especially with my status. I am resolved to tell anyone about my current situation, just as I did initially when put on the registry. I found though that when I told it initially, I lost all but a very small group of true friends. So the question is, how in the heck will I be able to meet others, and inform them of my registry inclusion? This is a problem that I have not had to deal with for several years, and I am out of practice on how to accomplish it in a constructive way.

Any Suggestions?

So what's with all the slanted RSO stories lately?

Is it the fact that the legislators haven't past enough laws to take away more rights of ex-offenders? Or did some news reporters get additional DWI's and they want to divert attention?

Seriously though, What's up with all of the stories on things that are not illegal?

Life's Changes

Well, I guess it was time for a change for her. I'm not angry at her, but am very sad obviously.

My wife of several years decided that she needed to look up her previous boyfriend (one she dated before we married). They've been carrying on a relationship for about a while now, I only recently found out after she had left. She's turns 50 next year, so I guess she needed to grab up some new dick, you know just in case everything goes badly for her at 51... When he dumps her, I might laugh, but I am unsure at present.

What a waste, honestly. It is tough enough to have to explain that mom is a just one level above street hooker to the kids, yet she wants to play like all is normal.. hard thing to do. Then when one looks back at so many years, and you have to question, was it all an act? Was I a security blanket for her, sheltering her from her former husband and his physically abusive behaviors? I have no idea. All I know is that my life as I knew it is now lost. My direction is gone, and my purpose is somewhat faded.

Yeah, I will move forward from a life objective point of view, but damn it hurts to be used like this. To invest so much time, effort, love, life on someone that wanted you only for security, then will hop in the sack with a former fuck because he FINALLY completed his education (not bad for a 44 year old huh?) .. what a fucking waste. Shout out to that retard.. I completed MINE in my 20's...

Karma is a bitch, it will catch them both.

Just in case anyone reads this, I am not looking for sympathy or anything like that. it just helps to vent. Oh, and for anyone that wants to claim this is due to my 'status' or for my crime, go fuck yourself. This is strictly a case of an old whore that decided she needed to move along before her junk dried up..

Yay another new year, another bullshit law

Currently, The state is attempting to ramrod through a requirement that states if a person gets a divorce, they must tell the court during proceedings if they have an RSO in their extended family IF the divorce deals with custody rights.

First, What utter bullshit. Ok, lets continue with the ostracizing of RSOs, and put more pressure on them to re-offend. Shut them off from their families. I guess the government being wrong with their lying statements in the news needs to create animosity between family and the RSO so that Government officials and their hired lackeys can claim that the non-offending RSO causes the family unit to be broken up 'due to their crimes'

Second, The vast majority of us have moved past our harmful ways and are attempting to become as productive as this country will allow (which isn't much I dare say). I don't think the statistics can get much better, 93% commit no further offenses. No other group can claim that. Not your drunk drivers, not your drug pushers, not even your spouse abusers. So why is it again that government wants to put even more pressure on us for crimes committed once, and something we have gotten treatment for and are moving past in our lives?

If I have a nephew somewhere that I have no intention of visiting, haven't seen him in 20 years, why is it so important that he tells the court that I am an RSO again? See, yet another example of punishment by the legislature for a crime I committed over 10 years ago. Yeah, that's constitutional!

I find it amazing as well

Over at Preaching to the Choir, a recent posting made me sit up a little more, and pay attention.

http://rantsofapublicdefender.blogspot.com/2010/01/we-rock.html

What I find interesting is not so much that the Attorney got fired up over her topic. It was this statement:

So 200-some years ago, we wrote a contract with ourselves to make sure we would always respect the rights of the worst among us.

I find that telling with the state of things. She talks about the down-trodden being written in the Constitution however we see that laws everyday passed to punish us for things that occurred 5, 10 20 years ago. So To S, at Rantsofapublicdefender, I say kudos to you for believing; but there again, how can you be so naive?

Been awhile

Life got busy, and so did I. But now I am back and continuing with this Blog.

Seems the Supreme Court has been busy lately, as well as states, to do their best to trample on the Constitutionally Promised rights of all citizens of the United States. Will research a few items to post.

if I still have followers, hope to see you soon.

S.O.

The inequalities of Sexual Assault

Read two very different articles last night from the news. The first one dealt with a 33 year old female volunteer scout master having "unforced' sex with a 16 year scout. The article named the ACCUSED, placed her picture in the article, and basically proceeded to make all sorts of toned down remarks on the alleged crime. What I found most striking about it, the comments section. People although condemning her actions, or alleged actions were very supportive of the idea of an older female with a late teen boy. Unlike what comments have been in the past when the roles were reversed.

The second article dealt with a 9 year old boy and a 6 year old girl. THe alleged offender, and his alleged victim were neither named, however the coments were much more harsh, calling the 9 year old boy child a monster, terrible, and some even saying that he should be kill "to stop him from ding it again" .

This is troubling. A 9 year old child who probably had limited knowledge of what he was doing is a monster, yet a 33 year old female is just a little mis-understood? How does that work out again?

While I find both behaviors troubling at best, I clearly see the outcome of decades of programming by NOW, Code Pink, et. al. citing the fragility of the female species on one hand, but how they should be giving equal status in the world on the other. A 33 year old male would not have been treated in the same way. In the past, 33 year old men in the same situation are "Monsters", "evil", "perverts"; While females, no matter what the age are "mis-understood", "Abused at home", "seeking to escape from wrongs in her current relationship". Grow the fuck up people. Your misguided, uneducated stance on all things Sexually Related are so infantile it is sickening. Either label all as the same or sit down, and shut the fuck up on the matter.

Most women are more evil in the area of Sexual assault, due to the planning of the assault, their ignoring of multiple parental and adult programming traits, while men are more driven by power and sexual attraction alone.

Haleigh's Step mom Flunks Poly

Very interesting. SHe says that her uncle, who is a registered sex offender in Tennessee is the one that took Haleigh, However it now looks like Misty Cummings might have been involved, and the Uncle had nothing to do with it. After several hours questioning, The Uncle was released from Questioning and the questions are now pointing straight back to the bimbo 17 year old. Her stories are not following any consistent manner, and well it looks like folks, she is lying through her teeth.

Misty Cummings says she does not regret taking the tests. She also feels she passed them, even though the independent test administrators say she failed them.

Very interesting, however if you look at past articles both here and at other rSO related blogs, you will see we called it first folks. Just another example that these assholes will try anything to get away with doing something harmful to a child, and then find an easily accessible target like an rSO to blame.

Here is a Topix post, although you can find several media outlets that will confirm the story. you can also use that C-Hunt, Nancy Grace, although I don't suggest it, even if this time she is using her media presence to show some truth.

So now, we get some interesting info, the under-aged girlfriend/baby-sitter/now step mom has a jealousy streak about a 5 year old child, she was the last adult to see her, AND she fails a polygraph directly relating to issues and questions about Haleigh's disappearance. hmm, starting to sound a bit fishy? Thought so.

Oh and P.S. to the wonderful person that commented on an earlier posting here please think before you come on here and rant again. As you see, I am showing the world that their pathetic excuses, and their out-right lies about most of us are unfounded, and lead to months of effort being totally misplaced. As an rSO, just like others that are, we can spot bullshit. The story that the 17 year old tart, Misty, was giving didn't jive for a moment, and we knew that something more was amiss with her. No, we don't have all of the answers, however the therapy that WE go through actually helps us spot bullshit lies by others. Misty is bullshitting you, but she didn't bullshit US.

Ronald needs to come out about what he's hiding as well. he knows something, he wouldn't have been redirecting the question from N. Grace if he didn't. Whether there was an accident involved, or some sort of drug-induced rage, both of these people need to come clean soon, else dead or alive that child will never be found.

Cop gets NO CHARGES for sending Lewd pictures to strangers...

MARICOPA – A police officer was fired after allegedly showing lewd pictures of himself to strangers.

Officer fired after sending lewd pics - azfamily.com's Jared Dillingham reports a police office is fired after showing lewd photos of himself to strangers.

3TV just got a stack of documents outlining the allegations against Officer Martice Berry. He is not being charged with any crimes, just conduct unbecoming of an officer and it is enough for the City of Maricopa to fire him.

Witnesses started coming forward over the last few months-claiming officer Berry was taking pictures of his genitals on his cell phone before sending them to women trying to convince them to have sex with him.

The Internal Affairs report says the officer's unprofessional behavior happened while on duty.

Investigators say Officer Berry hit on a number of women using his job to get dates, once while investigating a suicide and two other times at Maricopa City Hall.

The officer is also accused of harassing two married couples and hitting on a 16-year-old girl who he kissed at a gym.

When confronted with the allegations in June, Officer Berry denied them but his bosses thought he was lying and he has now been fired.

One of the investigating officers reports Officer Berry was found guilty of doing the same thing at his last law enforcement job in Michigan.

Yay, another pig gets away with no charges again.. I guess this is really another case of haves and have nots. This guy has the goods on other cops, just as they all do, and here we see the kid gloves come out.

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Yet Another Innocent caught in the Witch Hunt..

Be Proud America, you put a man in Prison for over 20 years because of your witch hunt. He needs to sue the 'victim' and everyone that came against him.

Ernest Sonnier was 23 when he was arrested and charged with rape and kidnapping. He was taken in handcuffs from his Houston home and didn’t leave prison for another 23 years.

A week and a half ago, at the age of 46, Sonnier was freed after essentially being told by prosecutors, sorry – but we now inform you that DNA evidence we’ve just gotten around to checking indicates you did not commit this crime...

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America's Most Wanted

I found this very interesting article regarding John Walsh and AMW. It is from 1992, but still something that should not be allowed to fall of the Web. Have a look.

Nowadays one can be portrayed as a wanton murderer on a nationally televised program, get killed by police less than 48 hours later, and have the nation invited by television to applaud the death within the week.

That fate befell Cesar Mazariego-Molina, 26, an undocumented worker from El Salvador, who L.A. County sheriff's deputies said killed rookie Sheriff's Deputy Nelson Yamamoto in a gun battle. Less than two days after the case was featured on the TV program America's Most Wanted, New York State police killed him with a shotgun blast to the back of the head.

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What ever happened to Haleigh?

I was reading some news and came across this very disturbing story. Regarding Haleigh Cumming's father and a dispute he has with his new father-in-law. The disturbing aspect of this is two fold. First, do you see how quickly the story has disappeared from the front page now that the only suspects are family members? Second, why is the father, in his deranged way, doing revenge hits on a mailbox when he should be out looking everywhere for his daughter?

Here is the problem I have. As a father of girls, I would be sleeping in tents, walking to every house I could find with flyers, pictures, anything that would help find my child. I would quit my job to search for ANY of my children or Grandchildren. It is very telling of a parent that runs out to marry a teen-aged 'girlfriend' just weeks after your child has disappeared. Does it say something of what became of Haleigh? Does it say something to WHO is involved? I find it all disgusting and in poor taste. Something happened to this child, and it had nothing to do with a Sex Offender uncle from Tennessee taking her. These two know what happened, maybe they had a drug induced violent outburst, maybe the child got into their drugs, or maybe, just maybe they were under full control of their facilities and harmed the child. Whichever happened, it is time to take these two behind the barn and get some answers. As an rSO, I am tired of being scared every time some low-rent human decides to off their kids, then scream a sex offender took them.. I grow weary of cops showing up at my house, and I REALLY despise the disregard they have for me as a person by not coming BACK and saying that they were sorry they violated my rights as a citizen by harassing me.

Ronald Cummings, father of 5-year-old Haleigh Cummings, stuffed a dead rat into his new father-in-law's mailbox, Hank Croslin told the Putnam County Sheriff's Office.

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Child Kidnapped, Police Looking for shadows

Here is a story that is beginning to sound all to familiar. Child is left in a car by parents (or parent) and mysteriously after only 'a few minutes' the child disappears. This scam is happening more and more across the country as people attempt to get over with the fear of a kidnapper, or a sex offender, grabbing their kid. 15 years ago the authorities would have lost no time in grabbing up both of these assholes and putting thumb screws on them to find this little boy. But today, due in no small part to the myth of sex offenders grabbing kids, the police spend the first precious 48 hours handing out flyers and canvassing areas looking for this child. How many rSO's have they woken up out of bed or detained illegally so far because of the hysteria caused by the ilk of John Walsh and Family Watchdog? headline below, with link to full story.

OAKLAND, CA (KGO) -- Family members of a missing disabled Fremont boy are hoping someone can help find him. Police say 5-year-old Hasanni Campbell was last seen in Oakland two days ago. He has cerebral palsy, but family members say he doesn't have leg braces on the outside of his pants.

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I hope the child is found, but I fear that too much time has been wasted by police looking for shadows instead of forcing the parents to confess their guilt. My Opinion obviously..

The myth of the high re-offense rate

Are Americans really this stupid?  Again and again I read that Americans truly believe that there is a high re-offense rate of sex offenders once they are through with Therapy and their sentences.  Here is a comment from a recent news story:

To Saffman: I don't know the registry laws in VT, but in MA a person convicted of a level one offense (public urination, etc.) are NOT listed. It is is only the level 2 and 3 offenders. And they SHOULD be listed, because they have a very high rate of re-offending. And sorry, but most of the people CANNOT be helped. And way to go for blaming parents for a sex offenders "mistake"...let me guess, it's the kid's fault, too?

Is this person making things up, or does he know something that someone else doesn't. Again and again we have seen study after study that presents facts about the re-offense rates of rSO's. And the facts cannot lie. The University of Washington, The DoJ, and several scholars have also pointed out the incredibly low re-offense rate of offenders.

However, due to the sensationalist writers of the media, you never hear of such things and thus the myth of high re-offense remains. So I challenge all of you that read here, When you see a article about the lie of high re-offense, or if you see a idiotic comment such as that above, reply to it and show the facts. Call these morons to the carpet and lash them with the real truth. Making someone look like an idiot truly does brighten one's day.

DoJ report
3.5% Re-Offense rate

More proof the Public is too stupid ...

This guy's a real winner.. I hope he gets to see what real cops do for a living very soon...

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NBCDFW.com

A Johnson County man who is charged with carrying a fake police badge said he never claimed to be a police officer, but needed the badge to conduct pedophilia investigations.

Rick Monsour, of Joshua, was arrested Friday and charged with carrying false police identification. He was released from the Johnson County jail on a $25,000 bond, police said.

It's a legal badge," he said. “They took it away from me and put me in jail for it. And that's terrible. It's a big mistake."

In an interview on his front lawn Thursday, Monsour said he founded a nonprofit group in March called “Victims Who Kick Your Ass” to help police conduct pedophilia investigations.

Richard Monsour, of Joshua, was arrested carrying a fake police badge, police said.

He is the group’s self-appointed president.

Monsour said he was a victim of sexual abuse as a child.

He said his group has not yet conducted any investigations in Texas but has worked on two in Louisiana.

In Joshua, police said they do their own investigations and arrested Monsour for carrying the authentic-looking badge.

"We just want all the citizens to know that Richard Monsour is not a part of the Joshua Police Department," said Lt. Leland Cheek.

Monsour was arrested after he allegedly went door-to-door, flashed his badge and asked residents about a woman who may have been a former girlfriend, police said.

The badge included the city's name and identified Monsour as an “investigator," Cheek said.

His arrest hardly came as a shock to his neighbors.

"It doesn't surprise me one bit,” said neighbor Nancy Green. “There's been more crazy things going on next door than anyone could imagine."

Green and other neighbors said Monsour moved into his house on Bentley Street several years ago claiming he was a victim of Hurricane Katrina.

But the more he talked, they said, the less they believed him.

“There’s just so many things he has told people that are totally untrue,” said neighbor Kim Smith.

“He’s said he was friends with the pope,” added her husband, James.

But he didn’t stop there, neighbors said.

“He’s told us that he’s in the FBI and the CIA,” James Smith said.

“He said he was in the KKK and proud of it,” Kim Smith said.

At various times, he also claimed to be a paramedic and a law student, neighbors said.

Monsour denied ever telling neighbors he was a federal agent, a lawyer or a Klan member.

“That’s crazy,” he said. “I don’t even know my neighbors.”

He said he did train to be an emergency medical technician but never actually worked as one.

Monsour said he knows the pontiff and receives Christmas cards from the Vatican. He said he does not consider the two of them to be friends.

He said he was stuck on the Louisiana coast for three weeks after Hurricane Katrina came ashore.

Monsour showed a Louisiana driver’s license with his name, picture and an address in Pearl River, which is where the hurricane first made landfall.

A very well written article..

From The Texas Policy Foundation
Titled Robbed of a job
Written by Mark Levin, Director, Center for Effective Justice

http://www.texaspolicy.com/tppn_archive.php?cid=1196367884

Since the Foundation launched the Center for Effective Justice in 2005, we have identified policy solutions to reduce recidivism and limit the scope of criminal law. Similar concerns led Florida Governor Jeb Bush to issue a 2006 executive order requiring state agencies to justify barriers preventing ex-offenders from entering licensed occupations.

This is a problem in Texas because we have so many licensed occupations and so many criminal offenses that can potentially bar someone from receiving or maintaining a license. Texas has more than 2,000 criminal offenses and over 150 state-licensed occupations. Some 20 percent of Texas adults—4.7 million people—have a criminal record that would appear in a background check. Yet, ex-offenders who are employed are three to five times less likely to reoffend.

Texas law allows for revocation or denial of a license if a person has been convicted of a felony or misdemeanor that “directly relates” to the occupation, but this is often interpreted overly broadly. A conviction for drug possession, for instance, is deemed to be directly related to being a water-well driller, vehicle inspector, mortician or embalmer, and barber.

Locksmiths’ licenses are automatically revoked or denied for most offenses—one locksmith who hadn’t drank in a decade lost his license in 2006 for a 1994 DWI conviction. Yet, research has shown that a person with a conviction seven years or older is no more likely to re-offend than anyone else.

What is the motivation for these barriers? Are they to protect the public, punish ex-offenders again, or restrict competition?

We criticized proposals last session that would have added new licensed occupations, including lactation consultants, sheetmetal workers, and auto mechanics. Economics tells us that excessive barriers to entry—whether through licensing new occupations or excluding otherwise qualified professionals—will reduce the labor supply and increase the costs to consumers. Whether you are an advocate of free markets or second chances, or both, that’s reason to take offense.

Isn;t this what everyone except the Special Interests and the vigiantes have been saying all along. Problem is, There are no thinkers in the Legislature, only brainless moron bent on votes, money, and re-election. Let's see if we can't surprise one or two of them in the coming few elections.

All we hear is garbage...

Over the last few days, American's have been given confirmation of what they already suspected.  The Bush Administration was running black-ops programs with the CIA in the lead, but was holding the information back from every other organization.  Alot of laws, rules, and other items were passed, all with out the benefit of true intelligence over the 8 years Dubya was in the Big House. 

Now, loot back at the laws that govern all of us, the rSO...  They are too based on garbage, lies, and information withheld from the greater population.  All to ensure they get their next set of laws passed, to make sure the sub-class of humans, they call Sex Offender, continues to feel the full force of ever oppressive laws...

To be sure, Government, both federal and state, has definitely found its stride when lying to the public..  I wonder though, for how much longer they can continue the charade...

Yes, This is what we have become ...

TORRINGTON, Conn. — A 16-year-old girl thought she heard her mother being assaulted by her boyfriend and rounded up some friends who beat him up, only to learn later that the couple actually were having sex, the woman and police said.

The girl misinterpreted the woman's amorous screams, and she and four other teens went to the woman's bedroom in the Torrington home on June 6, police Lt. Bruce Whiteley said Thursday. One of the teens beat the 25-year-old man with a bat and others punched him, police said. He suffered a black eye and several bruises.

The girl, two 17-year-old boys and Dilyen Langdeau, 19, of Torrington, were arrested Tuesday night and arraigned in Bantam Superior Court on Wednesday. Langdeau was charged with assault and conspiracy; the teens face similar counts. The fifth teenager was not charged.

A judge sealed the police report. The names of the girl and the two boys were not released because of their ages.

The 34-year-old woman, Melanie Arnold, told The Associated Press on Thursday that the girl is her daughter. Arnold denied she was screaming, and said her daughter thought she heard a slap and believed an assault was happening.

"Instead of asking what was going on, they assumed and took matters into their own hands," Arnold said. "Now they have to learn a lesson."

The teens knocked on the bedroom door and Arnold opened it, according to the couple, who recently broke up.

The teens rushed into the room and the man, Roger Swanson, said he didn't have a chance to explain himself. He said he tried to get away, but the teens chased him down and started beating him in the house.

He said he knelt down over a chair and tried to protect his face, but got hit in the eye and in the back. He said Arnold covered his back to try to protect him, but the teen with the bat started hitting him in the legs. Then the youths left.

"What if they fight someone else and those guys don't walk away? What if they kill somebody?" he said. "Then they're going to spend the rest of their lives in jail. These kids need to learn, go through the court system and see if you do something to somebody, you see what happens."

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So yes, now we have gone to the point where two consenting adults cannot have romantic interludes because we have so frightened our teens into believing that ALL SEX IS RAPE! Way to go America, You should be proud.. cretins. Hope the kids get some jail time..

Nancy Grace is a cunt.

Yeah I said it, and I will say it again. Nancy Grace is a CUNT. Was watching the video regarding little Haylee Donathan, Nancy was blabbing about how she didn't like that fact that the feds have con-air (let's face it, this is acting. As a former prosecutor, she knows damned well that these planes fly "above her head"... talking about being dramatic..fucking tart).

The gyst of the video is the mom stated she fell in love with Robbi Potter. Robbi is supposed to be living in a halfway house, but decided to split with the mother and the child.

Now you know the media is gonna continuously state that he is a predator, that is why he split. only Robbi really knows why. However, I would like to interject one thing. What if the reason the guy split is because of the registry? It is possible after all. Young man, tired of the bullshit dealing with the registry. Sorry folks, hate to disillusion, there is NOTHING civil about the registry. It is totally punitive. For those that would say "Good, it deserves to be punitive', I offer this. Adding punitive measures after someone does their time erodes the Bill of Rights and the Constitution of the United States. There can be no exceptions to this, or it actually works against you as well. Freedoms that you believed to be inalienable are not so and the continued erosion will one day come around and bite you square on the ass. Now back to the video ...

Our dear Friend, Nancy, goes on to depict the mom and the 'sex offender' as doing this terrible thing. Now I might not be too bright but didn't they leave and basically take a vacation/ yeah Robbi did something bad by splitting, but did he actually commit any offense besides parole violations? yeah the Adam Walsh Act supposedly will come into play, but that is a bullshit law which shouldn't be there to begin with. In America we are supposed to deal with true justice, not some hokey fucking pipe dream made up by a drunk womanizing father, and a coked out, non-attentive mother...

I guess I am just confused is all, as to why they are so upset over all of this. The child was with her mom. According to the un-educated general public, this is what sex offenders do, right? I mean really, the Registry is there to allow them to punish us everyday... So where is the big surprise?

Here's the Link to the cunt...err Nancy

For those accused of a sex offenses, they are guilty until proven guilty

ELLICOTT CITY, Md. - An Ellicott City violin instructor has been charged with sexually abusing an 11-year-old student during private lessons at his home, Howard County police said.

Ming Yueh Liang, 67, was charged with eight counts of fourth-degree sex offenses and eight counts of second-degree assault. He is free on bond, police said.

The victim and the victim's mother told police that Liang touched her repeatedly during lessons between March and May of this year. The girl's mother told police that she was present during the lessons, but she had an obstructed view of her daughter and Liang.

Police are urging other students who may have been victimized to contact the police department at 410-313-3200.

Detectives ask parents of students who have taken lessons with Liang to talk with their children and report any suspicious or improper activity immediately.

This man has not been sent before a judge, nor has a jury found him guilty. The man has also NOT entered a plea of guilty. Yet we see here, as usual, the media and police already claiming this man guilty. If he is, then by all means charge, convict and send him to his sentence. However, until that time he has been arrested for SUSPICION and nothing more.

The final few lines are very telling regarding police bias "all those who may have been victimized ... report improper behavior..." i.e. Coach your kids so that they can become 'victims' too..... Pathetic.

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